TAPE 6: THE SEARCH FOR THE NEW ORDINARY LIFE

Bethene: It sounds to me as if you are suggesting that the new ordinary life requires ongoing expansion. On of the things that strikes me about 9/11 is that there was a constricting of time, space, and of relationships. That seems entirely contrary to the kind of future that you're envisioning.

Lynn: That's a very good observation. What we all have to take to heart is a sense of: do we want space and time and relationships to constrict in order to feel safe...but at the same time...to feel imprisoned? This is why risk is such and important part of the new ordinary life. Or do we want to expand...expand our sense of space to include not just our neighborhood and our country but the whole planet? Do we want our sense of time to expand beyond just today... to the rest of our lives...to the future that's not ours?

What do we want in terms of relationships? Do we want to constrict and contract into having relationships only with people who think the way we think, look the way we look, do what we do, have the same economic status that we have? Or do we want to expand our relationships to the whole human community?

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